Keeping Approachable

You know I'm noticing this ministry thing is a learning curve thats for sure. One thing that I see alot is how unapproachable Christians can be, especially the type that are a little more spiritual than others, or held to a higher standard, I catch myself doing it, so really what breeds this unapproachable Christian? Thinking about it, I think it's three things, pride, fear and selfishness. Pride because we just think we are too good for that person, fear for what that person may bring into my sterile bubble, and selfishness, simply because we dont have the time and effort for another human being in our perfect little world. Really, is this how Christ lived? Was this how he demonstrated relationships with people?

God is convicting me lately of the importance of loving and accepting ALL, I want people that are sharing their hearts, needing a friend, or just want to share a funny story to know.....I care and am interested. My prayer is that I want my house to be open to those God brings my way. I want my heart to be soft to those who are hurting. I want God to trust me that when he brings someone my way I will be a representation of Him.

So when someone approaches you think of this....what can this person teach me, trust God brought this person across your path, take the time to find out why and be selfless, sometimes our agenda is not as important as the hurt that person wants to share.


Note to self:
Dont be a snob.....stay APPROACHABLE

Guest Post by Kylie Varcoe

First of all I want to tell you a little bit about me – My name is Kylie, I’m almost 25 and I live on the beautiful Gold Coast, Australia! I’ve grown up most of my life here and I would have to say that it is the BEST place to live in the world (I could be a bit bias seeing as I haven’t really been EVERYWHERE in the world)!
I’m a full-time Primary School Teacher and currently teach (very cute) little 5-6 year olds in Prep (the grade below year 1). This year I have also taken on the Kids Ministry at my church and absolutely LOVE it! I was worried that after teaching kids all week at school, I would get sick of coming and giving up my Sunday to hang out with kids too…but it’s the total opposite! I’ve really found that this year God has been etching the heart of the Father upon mine for His children in a great measure than I could even imagine.
During the week I also lead a Life Group for young adults, attend an accountability group with 3 other young women, and I also try to get to the gym a couple days each week. I look at my crazy life and sometimes think, “How in the world do I manage everything?” – and the truth is that without God’s help and keeping focused on Him, I couldn’t!
In the last few weeks I’ve been really challenged with a few simple questions that I encourage you to honestly ask yourselves: “Does my life reflect that I love Jesus more than: my job; my gifting; my myself?”
You see, the world we’re living in demands more and more from us as the days and years go by. God calls us to live a life that is completely for Him. When we do that, we’re freed up from any pressure and expectations of trying to live a life that pleases people! When we live to seek out the praise of people, we’ll always be disappointed and we’ll never live up to our full potential. But if we live as though we’re pleasing an audience of 1, we have the freedom to just be who we are.
If I’m living my life to reflect that I love Jesus more than my life, no matter what may come my way, my security isn’t in my job, my ministry, or myself…my security is in Christ alone! I know that for me, this is definitely not something that I’ve mastered, but requires a daily walk with God to live it out. What’s something practical that you can do today to reflect your love for God?

I have some visitors

I am so excited to have some Australians visit and stay with us over the next couple weeks. Kylie arrives tomorrow, you can follow her on twitter @Kylie_V. When I met Kyles on the Gold Coast in Australia I knew we would be mates. Kylie has a heart for Jesus and kids. She dedicates her life to children as a teacher and is a key volunteer at her local church (a lifechurch.tv network church) and runs the kids ministry there. Kylie will be spending her "holiday/vacation" time hanging out at the lifechurch.tv offices and also the Edmond Campus, so look out for her and say G'day! I have asked Kylie to be my very first Superchick for Jesus guest post, so be back on Monday to get to know her more and see her passion and heart for Jesus....See you back here Monday!!! Hooroo;)

They are not yours, they are Mine

What I'm realizing in my life with my children is the importance of appreciating every step this life brings upon us. I'm feeling God reminding me..."they are not yours, they are Mine" Wow, how I can I forget that one. My job is to prepare these little ones for the future God has in store for them, which may actually mean that they may not live in the same state or town as me, they may even live in another country (AHHHH). They are His, created for His purpose. I'm praying God gives Miles and I the parenting skills, so my children can embrace an uncertain future, knowing that Christ has their life in His hands and when we are not there for them its ok, be confident cause He is always there:)

Superchicks for Jesus

So I am one blessed lady. I am fortunate to have absolutely extraordinary women come into my life. Ones who are from the past, ones that are here one day and gone the next and others that I get to hang out with all the time. So I had this idea.....every now and then I'm going to ask these awesome Superchicks for Jesus to share something on my very popular blog;) I have been thrilled and blessed to know missionary wives, ministry wives, single women who are sold out for Jesus, mothers that have lost a child and allowed Jesus to carry them, ladies that dedicate their lives to their children, mothers that open the door to children they didn't physically give birth to, but they call them their own, I COULD GO ON FOREVER!! Extraordinary women sold out for Christ will be here on this blog every now and again to inspire you, challenge you, lift you up just as they have me....Stay tuned k:)

Discipline...huh...wa?

This is one thing that is the biggest struggle of my life, I was born with 0 discipline. I dont like to exersice, diet, actually committing to ANYTHING that involves using the discipline part of my brain I just will not do. So why is it this is such a struggle? I have numerous friends that literally feed off of having discipline in there lives, and wonder if they are taking some sought of drug. I read in the bible the importance of discipline for our spiritual life, so now I just have to stop using the dull, lame excuses of the past and start getting off my bum, kick my fleshman out the door and start structuring my life and adding the word d..d...discipline;) So anyone out there have this same struggle? How did you overcome it?

So, chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, disciplineColossians 3:12MSG

Discipline: activity, exercise, or a regimen that develops or improves a skill.

I'm gonna be one skilled Momma I'm tellin ya:)Cherrio xo

Bonnie Bottlebrush

Well I was blessed with a family that enjoyed nicknames, Karina was Dink, Charlene was Leeny, Jillian was wormy, and I was blessed with a few but one was Bottlebrush (due to my eratic hairstyles). There was 4 girls my Mum and Dad, we all loved family holidays, barbies, yabbying, swimming in creeks, driving to and fro in the cool brown Kingswood. Life was pretty good for a while, that is until alcohol entered the picture.
I was 8 when my Mum and Dad separated and 9 when alcoholism took my fathers life. My mother became a single mother of 4. Her job was cleaning so our income was very minimal. Did I know this yes....did it effect me ? I can honestly say No. God always provided, we always had food, I was a pretty good swimmer, and I trained and went to several competitions. I have been a believer since I was in grade 2 and always knew He was with me. I WAS BLESSED, I had Gods favour on my life and the best part was....He was my Dad.
God filled the BIGGEST gaps throughout my childhood. I went to a pretty cr..azy school where teen pregnancy and partying was the norm, but he took me out of situations like any natural father would....just supernaturally. He put me in a Youth that was sold out for Jesus and I got to know Him more. I made mistakes, my choices were not always the right ones but thankfully His grace was (and is) enough.
I believe this happened because my Mother knew she could not do it all .....her reliance, her husband, her breadwinner, the father of her children became Christ and she had a faith that he would fill the gaps...and He did....and He still does.

Pile your troubles on God’s shoulders— he’ll carry your load, he’ll help you out. He’ll never let good people topple into ruin. Psalm 52:22MSG

Thank you God for always being there for me. Even in times I didnt deserve it. Thank you for continually forgiving me, loving me and pouring your grace upon me. Convict me of the things you want changed in my life, and help me change. I love you. Bon